To Know Star Is To Love Her

2:35 PM / Posted by Sara Kaden N. / comments (0)

To know Star is to love her.. answers by Star herself back in 2008:
1. What time did you get up this morning?
7, 7:15, 7:30, 7:45 so on and so forth until about 8:30
2. Diamonds or pearls?
Diamonds - they don't call me icy for nothing - they, meaning just me....
3. What was the last film you saw at the cinema?
Ummm, i truly cannot remember
4. What is your favorite TV show?
Too many to list - but I can't wait for Heroes!!
5. What do you usually have for breakfast?
nothing
6. What is your middle name?
Sun
7. What food do you dislike? anything served from a less than 4 star michelin rated restaurant - hell to the yeah i'm a food snob!
Favortie cd at the moment? the three cd's Scott (aka DJ Blisk) burned for me *eee* ^_^
9. What kind of car do you drive?
2004 Mercedes E350
10. Favorite sandwich? Vietnamese banh mi
11. What characteristic do you despise?
Ugly people
12. Favorite item of clothing?
My Prada dress that my fatass can't fit into - thankfully I have Scott's Fatass go workout mixes~!!
13. If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you go?
Tehran, Iran (shut -up Wenz & Kai) anywhere w/ ancient ruins Greece, Italy, jerusalem,
Cusco etc...
4. What color is your bathroom?
The masterbath is Forrest Green, and the other one is Ecrue.
15. Favorite brand of clothing? Broakland Baby
16. Where would you retire to?
Some third world country where they would make me supreme ruler S-T-A-R
17. What was your most memorable birthday? I have two: 1.) My 21st when Sara and I were party promoters (Velcoity) Conan was spinning, alcohol flowing, me in a booby popping shirt w/ hot pants and hooker platforms. Conan calling my name over the loudspeaker but I was occupied throwing up in the bathroom, when the cake came out all hell broke loose w/ a en epic cake fight. Have no idea how I got home...in someone elses top?!?!
18. Favorite sport to watch?
Football
19. Farthest place you are sending this?
Boston, MASS & Seoul, Korea
20. Who do you least expect to send this back?
??
21. Person you expect to send it back first? Umm, Wenz....
22. Favorite saying? I like to smoke crack too but we all have to quit sometime.
23. When is your birthday?
07-11
24. Are you a morning person or night person? Night.
25. What is your shoe size?
5 or 5 1/2
26. Pets? two cats, Nigel and Mr. Peepers and a recently deceased fish named Unx.
27. Any new and exciting news you'd like to share with us? if i tell u i'd have to kill u
28 . What did you want to be when you were little?
a ninja (no really) I would pretend to walk all stealth like and silently and not leave footprints in the sand. How did i not get beat up more often??!?
29. What are you doing now?
multi-tasking
30. What is your favorite candy?
anything sweet that my teeth will fall out
31. What is your favorite flower?
Umm, hydrangeas, daffodils, tulips whateves.
32. What is a day on the calendar you are looking forward to?
Friday ^_~
33. What church do you attend?
St. Andrew Kim in Oakland.
34. What is your full name?
Star Sun #1 Stunna Im
35. What are you listening to right now?
funky music at work - some white ppl metal shit.
36. What was the last thing you ate?
A soy joy bar *yuck*
37. Do you wish on stars? I wish on myself all the time.

To Know Star Is To Love Her Part 2

2:30 PM / Posted by Sara Kaden N. / comments (0)

Another quiz answered by our sarcastic little Star:

1. When I'm drunk, I tend to...
Make out w/ my girlfriends, rip their expensive jewelry, give them hickies and make fun of them the next day not knowing it was me that gave it to them in the first place (sorry sara!! hahahah)

2. Shots or beers?
shots. ... See More

3. Do you have a drinking buddy?
Jack D. and Jim B.

4. Do you get angry?
sometimes. and i get into ninja mode and bomb on ppl >:)

5. Do you puke?
hell yeah. I'm so classy.

6. After 7 drinks who are you?
"that girl" either 'that girl' throwing up, 'that girl' getting carried out of the club, 'that girl' falling off the stage. Again sorry to sara for having to endure all this!!!

8. Tequila does what to you?
makes me want to lambada - you know the forbidden dance.

10. Vodka makes you?
be punctual. b/c everytime i was late going out to sara's she and telemachus would make me take vodka shots as punishment - bitches!

11. Do you smoke when you drink?
all the time

12. Do you pass out?
um, not sure you'll have to ask sara.

13. Do you drink girly drinks?
yes.

14. Do you drink alone?
yes, well, no i have my cat.

15. Worst drink you have ever had?
Some nasty ass Jagermeister that was god knows how long under sara's bed, that she made me drink on a dare - prior to that we were drinking hella pprmint shnapps.

16. Do you play drinking games?
yes and i love them.

17. Favorite Beer?
the kind i don't pay for!

18. What is your favorite shot?
please see above.

19. What will you NOT drink?
pee.

20. Are you a lightweight when it comes to alcohol?
yes.

22. Do you ever drink Bacardi Silver?
oh is that the drink like a Zima...yes, i think i drank some at sara's

23. Do you like frozen drinks?
no thank you, eww brain freeze.

24. Do you drink liquor straight?
yes. i drink it straight, gay whateves.

25. Do you ever drink out of the bottle?
hell yeah, espeically 40's b/c it makes me feel hella gangsta.

26. Are you drunk right now?
no.

27. Do you consume more than 2 alcoholic beverages on daily basis?
no.

28. Do you drink a lot of wine?
yes.

29. When's the last time you drank?
hmm, maybe like 2 weeks ago.

30. Name someone that will repost this drinking survey
anyone who is bored as i am.

31. Ever been streaking while drinking?
embarssingly...yes.

32. Hot tub/pool naked because of alcohol?
yes.
33. Failed any college courses due to alcohol alone?
combination of alcohol, drugs, partying being gangsta etc.

34. Ever woken up & said "Dude where's my car?"
No. But definitely dude wher e's my shoes?

35. Ever carried someone up & down the same flight of stairs due to their drunkeness?
YES! b/c my friends are as much of a lush as i am but we take care of each other.

36. Puked in a friend's car?
No But I've slept on the bathroom floor. Asked people to go sleep on the couch. when it was THEIR house

37. What is the last liquor you drank?
Don Julio Blanco shots

11:19 AM / Posted by Sara Kaden N. / comments (1)

Written By: Kerry L. So beautifully said, I had to share:

Sara,
Words cant express how much I feel for you and Star and her family right now. I remember the days of hanging out with her in the early years when she was dating Leo. She ALWAYs had my back. And boy do I have a story...
Plain and simple...that girl was fantastic! ... See More
In our lives, people come and go...like the seasons. We are close, then they leave, sometimes we leave...and then again, sometimes, they leave because they are destined to go to a place that is greater than here. For us, we are left with memories. We must never forget why they were with us in the first place. It starts with a great energy that connects us, then acceptance, understanding, friendship, love and absolutely loyalty. You and Star were the ones who made it till the very end of a relationship...loyalty.
I know it's a tough time for you right now...but I also know that your strength and resiliency will help you overcome. In fact, it's what is needed. Your daughter and Star's son, need you to be strong. To teach them about life and the SOUL of a person, rather than the death of a person. I cannot even begin to feel your grief at this point. I'm sure you stay strong already, but then breakdown when you miss her or know that she will not be a phone call away. Let's not forget, that a phone call only connects you to a voice, her spirit and her soul is still here! If you want to reach out to her. Talk to her....she'll hear you.
When we see a loved one move on to the next life, we hold on to them selfishly...because we miss them, we get mad and wonder...how or why did she get dealt this destiny at such a young age, why did they take this course, what happened, and why did they leave us so soon. We think to ourselves and ponder...what if this happen to me, or to another family or friend, or even worse, to our children. This is very hard...I am crying just thinking about that.
Perhaps, it's not our life to live, not our life to judge or not our life to control. Star, lived a life with you as her best friend. She had a great kid...she had Destini and she had great people around her. There is a famous chinese proverb that basically says..." It you have made ONE BEST and dearest friend in you lifetime...then your life was worth living." She had you and more!
She lived a good life. God and the world needed her somewhere else....she was a good person and moved on in the most painless way possible. By no means did she move on in vain. I was only a pebble in her pond, but what she did for me was immeasurable and in someway, shaped me. I will tell you about it one day....what she did. It's actually a very hilarious and very "STAR" kind of thing. It was FANTASTIC. I'm sure you got to experience that many times!
Please let me know what I can do for you or her family. And please call me or I can call you and have you over for dinner and some vino.
Dont deny yourself any feeling that you have..feel it all...but in great strength...knowing that Star is closer to you now more than she was before. she's a whisper away....

Kerry